Life of The Two Ladies

This blog is utterly dedicated to my one and only daughter, ALMA ZE bint ARIF SABRI.
With fond hopes that someday, when she reads this, sunny spirit will take its place - a cause to pour that special smile on her face .......
and have faith just how darling she is since her very first heartbeat, forever in my heart.
I also make room for myself here, where I jot down what I'd like to remember, almost everything in every sense of my days.
"Of all the rights of women, the greatest is to be a mother." - Lin Yutang


30.11.11

wear a smile throughout the day, can you top it?


** definitely I can't. I save those smile only to entertain Alma :)

don't lie. tell 'em if that's what you meant. like this.


29.11.11

Veggie & Alma Ze - how they get together so well.

Veggie, veggie & veggie.

Not any kind of tales, tapi k.e.n.y.a.t.a.a.n bahawa kanak kanak memang susah nak makan sayur.
Face it.
Hate it or like it - memang some parents find it quite challenging to get their kids to eat vegetables.

I believe neither parents who love vegetables will have their kids sharing the same bowl nor parents who don't love vegetables will have kids who never fancy veggies at all.
It only takes a lil effort to get our kids to eat veggies - keep trying and have fun with it.

In my case, I would say I am pretty much a lucky mother to have a daughter who is not a fussy eater at all.
Seriously, Alma memang makan segalanya. She loves to eat and trying new taste.
She loves vegetables, in all colors - purple, green, red and orange. Bayam, sawi, kobis, timun, kangkung, terung, lobak, tomato, kacang panjang, bendi, broccoli and to name a few..

Semua ibubapa seharusnya tahu dan faham kepentingan sayur kepada anak anak dan cuba lebih kreatif untuk menarik minat anak anak untuk menyukai sayur sayuran, Bukankah tanggungjawab kita untuk menjaga kesihatan dan memastikan yang terbaik untuk anak anak kita?

Oh, I'd like to share a tip on how to get kids to recover from fever, cough and flu - faster.
Change their menu of the day to veggie soup, make sure you mix variety of vegetables such as spinach, carrot, broccoli, tomato and etc..
And make sure you serve vegetables for snacks, 2 - 3 times a day. Do not boil to soften the veggies, better still steam it as it is way more n.u.t.r.i.t.i.o.u.s. Enjoy!


yummy! yummy!

Anugerah

Alma Ze,
you are beautiful like a rainbow
you is a thriller, the origin of my trigger
an incredible bless to see you magically grow
just a smile on your face is adequate to omit the rigor

- by sitihajarfatimahismail

counter clockwise: 1st week, 1st - 4th month
counter clockwise: 4th - 7th month


top: 8th - 10th month , bottom: 11th - 12th month



24.11.11

what would you do?

situasi yang menjenkelkan kalau ia berlaku, kan? 


as for me, takpe lah, biar lah, suka hati lah, nak lama mana pun tak kisah. 
sebab boleh gunakan waktu yang ada tu untuk hal lain - anak, diri sendiri dan rumah tangga. 

tapi jangan tetengah malam, waktu nak buat paperwork, waktu Alma dah jadi sleeping beauty, internet ni nak buat hal pulak! 

memang kecik hati!

7.11.11

end of the story

Alma..!! Mother dapat jugak cari toothpaste yang you suka tu. Alhamdulillah.. :) 
Memang susah nak dapat, tapi mother usaha jugak. Never give up seeking and questing anything for you, darling! Setiap kali jumpa pharmacy, mesti mother akan hop in. Ada ke, tak ada ke, belakang cerita. And nak dijadikan cerita, hari ni masa mother and Aunty Izan pergi Giant, nak beli barang you for our picnic, ternampak Guardian and as usual mother pun buat lawatan rasmi (lagipun nak beli sun-block for you), zass...mother nampak something down at the very bottom shelf! Actually langkah kaki dah ke hadapan menuju ke cashier counter tau, tapi ekor mata masih melirik ke belakang, kindda afraid that I might overlooked on something, and this time mother sure need not to ask for it - because I saw it!! :) yippie!!  The staff told me the stock just arrived days ago, delayed on certain reasons. No wonder I could not find it for such a period. Coincidentally, the temp toothpaste you're using is finishing, right timing ya!

Whatever it is, enjoy your time brushing your teeth :) 

almost a complete set of teeth
p/s: Mother would go high and low to cater you, my endless love.

5.11.11

matchy matchy saves money money

The key is:  
  1. D.I.Y
  2. D.I.Y
  3. D.I.Y
  4. go ask Renee and her hubby ;p
True that. And if you are on a limited budget, this idea might work best for you. 

Si Renee and her hubby spent dalam $50 je untuk bilik baby mereka, $20 for a tapestry and lagi $30 for a bit of here and there. Sungguh creative dan bijak!


Sungguhpun tak se-stunning mana (tetap menarik ok), tapi creativity couple ni yang meng-stunned kita.

4.11.11

oh, jeritan batinku I

l.i.l.i.t.a.n. betis agak belum capai ke tahap yang sepatutnya.
jadi, Puan Hajar sila turn to the next item ye, kita tunggu sampai l.i.l.i.t.a.n. betis ada n.g.a.m!


ohh jeritan batinku!

trickie kickie alma ze

wowzer! lookie, lookie!
mother just gonna wait and see if you can get yourself outta the crib. uh uh!



queer out of the blue

one after another popped by
.
it seems odd as time goes by

3.11.11

16 bucks?? fo real! yes..enam belas ringgit saje you!

no joke! the cheapest salon ever. 
wash and blow - pendek or panjang, sama harga: rm16.
siap boleh set rambut sekali, pun rm16 juga. 

lokasi: taman molek
close on: monday

  
terima kaseh la cek sam kerana bersusah payah bawa saya ke salon ni ;p lepas ni saya dapat jimat berpuluh puluh ringgit untuk rambout saya. tihihi

frevur favre III

frevur favre II

You've got to feel this!

unfortunately not many melodramatic talents can sing this along. kenapa ek?

2.11.11

frevur favre I

For donkey years this one is still a must track to listen to on the freeway whenever I drive solo. 
Hey dalam hati ada taman ok!

1.11.11

Si Tukang Kayu - At Her Ultimate

Need to disassemble your bed? Leave it to her. 
Deep breathe. Hmmmphhh...pening kepala mother tau, Alma!
Once you figured it out, that's it. You 'd go on, over and over. Kind of serious at that!

Listen Alma.. yes - Abah is one kind of a man. The kind who manage to fix things and get it done, when there is no one else could make it, he is the man. The kind who make complicated things much easier. The kind who make others think that nothing is impossible. The one who helps to solve problem faster. The one that many especially in our family, seek for his hand. You know what I meant? No?? Okay, go google this. Already? Got it? Yes, that's what I meant. Abah is our MacGyver. I simply have no worry whenever he is with me. He always have his way. He always make things work. He always impress others. Not that Abah is a perfect man on earth, tapi ada keistimewaannya. Itu ialah anugerah Allah kepada Abah. Oh Wan yang panggil Abah MacGyver tau!

Now Alma, since you were a baby, Wan and I have always caught you doing stuff that a baby should not be doing. As a grandmother of 20 grandkids, Wan indeed has years of experience observing each and every little ones, and  simply could have predict her grandkid's behavior. So, same goes to you. Wan observes your moves, your behaviors, just everything. and you tahu tak apa Wan cakap tentang you? Well after intimately saving and spending her days and weeks with you, (yes, kita selalu balik kmapung Wan - seronok tau!), Wan beritahu mother yang you ni suka buat kerja godeh sana, godeh sini, screw sana, unscrew sini, adjust sana, modify sini, just like Abah when he was a tot. 

And today, I too have come to a conclusion that memang you ni ada sikit ikut perangai Abah. I really don't mind darling, but look, you are a girl, Alma. Yes, I want you to be tough and rough, not the very girlie kind, I hope, but darling, kalau dah sampai ke tahap you gegarkan katil (by hopping, jumping, pillow fighting and barney fighting), sampai katil bergerak tho' I already have locked its wheels! The next thing - you gathered all strength to twist the crossbars, sedaya upaya, sekuat kudrat you, berjaya juga tanggalkan palang palang tu, eeishhhh... I was completely speechless. Slowly but surely, you removed the crossbars, one by one.. but as you knew that it was supposed to be fixed, thus you tried to tack them altogether, in anyways. Yes, you tried very hard. You stood up, sat down, you lied down for a while as you felt tired, but you proceeded into work soon after that. 
How efficient! :)

By the time you tried to tack the bars altogether, to insert each components to its place, unexpectedly the whole 
piece of the drop side fell on the floor!! Thanks God for your fingers weren't trapped between the pieces. fuuhhhh.....!! Had only the bottom half of the crossbar, made all your effort - to get out of the crib, much easier kan! hehehe... Just in less than a minute, you got yourself out of the crib and happily teased me and Tok' Mak. grrr!! so action eh dapat keluar dari katil sendiri, with your mata sepet, big teeth and hidung pesek you, your face were glowing happily, merrily! hahahahhaha  

Well we both simply couldn't bothered to stop you because you're in the phase of exploring and learning. As long as I'm there, by your side, observing you and protecting you, you are free to explore and learn things surrounding. It's your freedom, baby! Now, look at you doing the things that makes me go hmmmm....
Enjoy, darling Alma!

* Thanks for the effort helping me to fix the crib! :)